I am single (divorced, not bitter), no kids. That said, I am mainly on here looking for friends. I'm
not looking for a hookup, and while I wouldn't mind meeting a wonderful guy, I don't really view Fubar as a dating site of any kind. But I do love making new friends! I dig intelligent conversation, and I'll talk to anyone of any age, as long as you're polite and have something interesting to say.
I lean towards the liberal side, especially on social issues. I'm really not religious at all. While I've dated women in the past, I think I've come to the conclusion that, for relationships, I prefer men. I'm also very monogamous. That said, I do not judge other people's lifestyles. Hey, what you do with your life is your business, not mine.
I like books and music and hanging out. I like watching football, and I wish (oh, I wish) I could afford season hockey tickets. I'm a classically trained musician, and I do some musical theater. I like games -- video, card, board, whatever.
I enjoy people who are slightly geeky/nerdy, but not socially awkward. Wide-ranging interests are good, as are respect and appreciation for human diversity. I consider myself somewhat classy but casual, and get along well with people who appreciate the arts but feel most comfortable in jeans.
In real life, I write documentation for computer software used to design integrated circuits. It's more interesting than it sounds!
Lots more information about me in my
OKCupid profile.
How to Approach MeI'm first and foremost a human being. I am attuned to my sexuality, but I'm also a warm, intelligent, wise human being. If you can't treat me with the respect and maturity I deserve, don't bother talking to me.
Also, I don't cam or cyber. They bore me. So, don't ask.
Fubar FriendshipI'm here to make friends. I'm looking for people who are interested in actually getting to know me. So I avoid adding people who have so many friends they can't possibly keep up with all of them, and I drop people who seem uninterested in getting to know me.
Oh, and just so we're clear,
I do not add people who believe it's polite to refer to someone's breasts as an introduction. C'mon, people -- is that the way your mom taught you to taught to strange women? If it's not something you would say to an attractive stranger at a party, while sober, it's not something you should be saying on here. Get it?
Check out my skins!
(online i think hehehehe????)
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