I am just me. A human being with a heart. That has emotions. I am easy to get along with. I shoot from the hip ... not always a good thing. I make a lot of fucken mistakes, but I correct them when I can. I have only one life to live and that is here and now.

I will not settle for second best. I will only accept that which brings me joy, happiness and fulfillment. Otherwise I don't need it in my life.


I have two beautiful kids, that drive me to be the best I can. I am making up to them for letting a bad marriage 'take me down' a destructive and confusing course. I live in my own cocoon with my children while I heal and gain strength enough to trust in others again. I only have faith in what I know to be right.


I am dealing with a separation and some reality checks at the moment and am really not interested in a relationship or anything beyond a friendship.


Since my daughter was born in 2005 she inspired me to focus on who I was. So I could be a role model for her. I got lost along the way with various other issues interrupting. Now my focus are my children and promoting their success in this life.


I don't like pretentiousness in people. I like people that can be real and can see all aspects of life ... the good the bad and the ugly.


I have a great sense of humor that has carried me through my trials and tribulations in life so far ....


I intend to keep it - it keeps me out of the dark and in the sunshine (the sense of humor that is).


I am a bad rater ... but I love talking to people and am generally found in the MuMMs ....


I am trying to learn that all experiences are for our growth and development. Somehow things hurt less when you think of things that way.


I am easy going generally but have been known to blow a gasket.

See you around ... Love and Blessings Xena xoxoxo